There are several things that should always be kept secret. If you talk about them to others, you may have a problem. Here is a list of things about what you should definitely be silent.
Do not tell anyone about your most ambitious goals. Remain silent about them until you can really achieve something. In large-scale plans always have weaknesses and poorly thought-out points that you do not know. If you tell someone about such a plan, you can point out its shortcomings – and you lose confidence. This will prevent you to achieve the goal.
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Mystery is necessary and good deeds of charity and other good works are also important. If you boast yourself, you become an arrogant person. If you are sure you want to tell everyone about your actions, you need to think about what motivates you at all. Maybe it’s not about altruism and the desire to hear the compliments.
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Do not tell others the details of your personal life. No need to blow about your diet or how you have overcome your habit of long sleep in the morning. Do not tell others about your most desired passions. It is not that you will not share anything to anyone. Rather think of what you should tell and what not. If you share spirituality, it loses its significance. This emotional balance requires harmony, not a desire to constantly receive praise.
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You should keep quiet about situations where you displayed heroism or bravery. We all have to face variety of tests in life. All achievements will receive its reward, but you decide what and when. So do not boast about your heroism in front of others. You can tell people about safety precautions, but not more than that.
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Knowledge of unrecognized
It is not necessary to share your thoughts about life and death. This is just your personal opinion, not objective truth, so you’ll just look arrogant and condescending person, explaining the essence of the rest of the universe. Only in very rare cases, your ideas can really help someone.
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Conflicts in the family
Always remember that problems in the family should be told as little as possible – it makes the family stronger. All problems must be solved within the family, and don’t share them with others. The more you complain the rest, the harder you cope.
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Unpleasant actions of others
Do not talk about unpleasant actions of others. You just get yourself dirty with gossip. The person, who recounts all the bad things that he had seen during the day, did not do anything smarter than someone who walks around the house in dirty shoes.
Above list only includes 7 things that should be kept secret. But there are a lot of others things people need to take care of secretly. So, let’s start with the list.
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